My nephew has Lung Cancer

I just received word that my nephew has lung cancer. Yes, he's a smoker and should have known the risks of tobacco, but it still hits you quite hard when cancer becomes a reality. I have not contacted my sister yet because we have to take Hannah to Chicago for her evaluation and I don't want to get any more emotional than I am right now. So we have decided to wait until after we come back before we contact them. I have no words that can take the hurt away, what do you say to someone who just lost their husband and another son last year? Now this is her second son that is dying. Yes, she has two sons left, but one of them has already had surgery for cancer too! Man, when it rains, it pours. If you and your loved ones are healthy, thank the good lord, because it may not last forever