I got married early

I met my first wife "Patty" when I was in the military, and was blessed with a son at nineteen years old, but the marriage was doomed right from the start. We found out that we were not meant for each other but we had a son to raise, so we stayed together until he was eighteen years old. Sometimes this is not the best thing to do as I found out, because we fought most of the time and fighting is not good to have a young child around. "Lust" is sometimes mistaken for actual real love when you're this age and I found this to be my down fall. It cost me the best years of my life.